Recently, I felt incredibly stressed, almost losing my mind, because working with this new group of young people was so different and challenging for me. One day, overwhelmed by a particular problem, my husband told me, "You always go for the money and the title, but you don't choose the easy path." Initially, I was irritated by his comment. I heard his words but didn't truly receive the message. His suggestion felt like a cop-out, a step down from all my years of hard work and education.

I continued on, even going for a job interview for a director position. Despite my impressive resume and interview performance, the woman offered me a job as a case manager. I was furious—how could all my experience and qualifications lead to a mere case manager role? That night, God dealt with me. I replayed my husband's words and my own statements during the interview about needing work-life balance and less stress. It became clear that the woman saw someone who had already achieved much and now sought ease and relaxation. She offered me a position that would allow me to engage with people without added stress.

I realized that my leadership qualities do not need validation through a title or high salary. The leader in me is who I am, regardless of my job title. God showed me that I didn't need a six-figure salary because my current work already provided sufficient income. I'm retired; I'm not working for the benefits but to be useful and serve God's purpose.

Now, I focus on listening with my spirit. I ask God how I can serve, understanding that my work isn't about saving for retirement or funding education, but about having the freedom to enjoy life. With God's provision, my needs are met, not by my job. I've learned to hear not just with my ears but with my spirit, to truly understand the messages meant for me. This revelation has set me free.

Be blessed, and be open to hearing with your spirit.